Thursday, November 23, 2017

This Year's Thanksgiving Pep Talk

Every year I give myself a Thanksgiving pep talk. I want to share it with you as well, in case you need to hear one today! This Thanksgiving pep talk is meant to encourage us, lift our spirits on a possibly stressful day, remind us to find ways to de-stress and relax, promote being flexible and open to new ways of doing things, and above all to enjoy our Thanksgivings. Come what may...

New and improved for the 2017 holiday season! I hope you'll take some comfort from this, if you're nervous, stressed out, or feeling overwhelmed this Thanksgiving morning! This pep talk is mainly meant for people hosting Thanksgiving at their own homes, but several parts might also apply to those traveling, attending drama-filled family dinners nearby, or spending Thanksgiving alone.

This year we'll think positive. We can do this! We'll get through today, hopefully enjoying the occasion. If not, we'll have stories to laugh about in years to come. (Maybe it will take a while for the laughing to commence! I'm not very happy about having to scrub out a Silpat I melted in my oven this morning!)

Let's remind ourselves - We're lucky to have family and friends to spend time with (even if they drive us crazy) and fortunate to have food to eat at our feasts today. For those of us spending Thanksgiving alone (I almost did this year, happily and by choice) we know that we can't always be with loved ones, and there are likely many people across the country thinking warm wishes for us today. Let's pick up a telephone and call them. A real phone call (or Skype/Facetime session), not just a text!

We have good friends who may be delighted to spend time with us later this weekend after the day of feasting is over. They'll celebrate with us, laugh with us, listen to our venting, compare stories about our more colorful relatives and their antics. We can commiserate, and then agree to let things go and only talk about positive things after our brief venting is done. We can choose who we spend the rest of our holiday weekend with. I'm all in favor of cozy parties where people wear pajama-like clothing and play board games over leftovers!

Let's not stress ourselves worrying about how our Thanksgivings will go. Whether we're traveling, hosting, or spending the holiday at someone else's house, let's try to have the best day possible. We can let the stressful parts roll off of us gently, and laugh about them later. I'm reminding myself to be gracious.

Nothing has to be perfect today.

Pottery Barn, Z Gallerie and Architectural Digest are not coming over to our homes today to photograph our elegantly set tables or our artfully decorated, "spotless" formal living rooms. Our children are most likely going to spill, throw up, have potty accidents, throw tantrums or behave in ways that embarrass us - That's ok. Baby Gap is not coming over this evening to photograph them for their next children's clothing catalog. Nor is Oprah filming a show in your home on "America's Best Behaved Children."

Vogue is not here to film our stylish outfits we wear to visit families; nor is Anthropologie sending a photographer to document our lovely vintage-style aprons and how clean we kept them during our cooking session tonight. Don't worry about what you're wearing (look nice and clean and respectful, though!) Today doesn't have to be Instagrammable.

Often, we as women put pressure on ourselves that the rest of our families aren't actually involved with. We want to have the perfect Thanksgiving; our families want to hang out with nice people, watch football, drink copious amounts of delicious alcohol and eat food. We want to have the biggest, tastiest dinner on the most beautiful table with fresh flowers and fancy dishes - yet our kids just want to play with their cousins, eat pie, and watch some of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. Nobody asked us to make that fourth kind of pie, nobody requested that we painstakingly hand-make Turkey tabletop papercrafts from Pinterest, nor did anyone demand that we serve a round of dainty hand-crafted appetizers before the turkey and mashed potatoes come out of the oven.

Thanksgiving is about being with family and friends. If you undercook or overcook the turkey, that's ok - people will happily eat your mashed potatoes and stuffing instead. If your old rude Republican uncle starts in on you about politics, that's ok, you knew he would. Sigh inwardly and try to change the subject. Don't feed the troll, and don't let him "win" by letting him see you get upset or needled. It's your house, and you're allowed to yell loudly "No religion and politics at the table!" and then smile sweetly and ask a gentler relative to tell a nice story.

Your tablecloth is stained or a bit ratty? Who cares - it was put on the table fresh and clean, right? The furniture your relatives are sitting on has cat-scratch marks on it? Well, this just means you have pets you love. Stains on your apron or clothing from cooking? Good, that means you worked hard to make something nice for your family.

If something spills, wipe it up with a smile. Laugh if (when) something breaks. (I like to yell "NOW it's a party!" to try to assuage the dish-breaker's guilty conscience). If someone cries, hand them a tissue, and give them a hug. If that person is you, have your cry for a couple minutes in the other room but don't let it ruin your day. Don't let yourself contribute to or escalate family drama. Go outside to take a walk if that helps you, but sneak out quietly, don't storm out in an attention-seeking huff. No pouting or hiding in the other room hoping someone comes to find you and give you attention!

There are some things that will never change. There are some things we can't control. No, our houses will never be as clean as our mother-in-laws' homes. I won't be able to cook food anywhere near as delicious as my boyfriend's mother does. We will likely never have a nicer car, nor as big a house as our brother-and-sister in law do - and they might very well go on more luxurious vacations than we do. That's ok. We'll be happy for them. We're good cooks, but there's always an Aunt Helen or a Grandmother known in the family for being the best cook ever. That's ok, let them enjoy that title. We still still make our own delicious food, be proud of it, and enjoy our feasts.

It's all going to be ok. We can do this!

Let's strive to keep the peace. We vegetarians or vegans should not complain nor try to convert anyone (I'm cooking my own small portion of Tofurkey for myself). We atheists or agnostics can gracefully bow our heads and close our eyes quietly while a family member offers a prayer at the table. We can tolerate someone's pets escaping from a back bedroom and coming to visit the table. It's more important to have a peaceful meal than to voice our discomfort. There's other times we can assert ourselves, stand up for our beliefs, etc, but the Thanksgiving table is the place for that.

We'll take care of ourselves first thing this morning. I want to have a clean dress on, makeup on and my hair brushed. If that means something doesn't make it into the oven or into the fridge in time, so be it. We'll take time in our showers, our dressing and whatever makeup or not we wish to apply. We'll indulge in an extra cup of our favorite morning hot beverage to get the caffeine flowing. And I fully intend to cook with a slowly-sipped and savored glass of wine in my other hand today!

One thing that helps a lot is having some quiet alone time on Thanksgiving morning, even if it's just for a few brief minutes. Try to do something relaxing if possible (Read a few pages in your book? Browse a magazine? Go for a quick walk? Play a quick Facebook game?) to de-stress before the stress even starts. Give yourself permission to take time for yourself, so you can give more of yourself as the holiday begins.

Delegate! Thanksgiving is not all about you, and you can't and shouldn't be the "Queen of Thanksgiving." If someone offers to help, let them. If someone offers to bring a dish, let them. (Worried Aunt Edie will bring her nasty sugary marshmallow yams? That's ok, let her and be grateful she's not bringing her mushy overcooked cold mashed potatoes).

One of the things I usually do every year to emotionally survive the holiday is this: I throw a special after-Thanksgiving casual movie night on the immediate next Saturday night for any friends who are still in town. I'll clean up my house a bit if I've hosted, but not stress over it. We'll wear comfy sweats or pajamas, eat leftovers or fresh fruits and veggies, and watch fun movies while relaxing. Friends are the family you choose, and I choose to be around happy, fun, easygoing people on my four-day weekend. Later on in the weekend, there are some friends returning from stressful holiday travel who might need to be cheered up and tell stories to a sympathetic listener.

Now for a special note to anybody reading this who might be spending their Thanksgiving alone. It's ok, it happens to all of us. Not everybody has family close by, or the ability to travel. Sometimes we get sick right before Thanksgiving and choose (kindly) not to share our germs with loved ones. Sometimes people have to work on Thanksgiving or the day after. On more than one Thanksgiving in years past, I absolutely couldn't face the whole thing and voluntarily stayed home alone. I truly did have a good time.

Instead of sitting there feeling sorry for yourself for being alone, think of all of your friends who are stuck in airports and freezing cold in winter snowstorms! Make yourself a special delicious treat to eat, watch a movie or put on your favorite music. Enjoy your relaxing alone time. If you are feeling a bit blue, skip the alcohol and have hot cocoa instead. If we're involuntarily alone, we can choose to think positively about the experience - We can eat what we want with nobody around to judge us, cook food the way we want it, hog the remote, binge watch as much crappy TV as we like, dress in our holey and comfy pajamas, and listen to whatever music we choose, loudly!

A special challenge from Lovely Living:

Try to be there "in the moment" during the entirety of your Thanksgiving meal

What do I mean by this? Put your phone down. Don't spend your time texting your friends; don't spend all day on your cell phone talking to people who aren't there in person. (Definitely call a few relatives to wish them a happy Thanksgiving, of course. But keep your calls brief so you can pay attention to the people directly in the room with you). You can talk to your friends and text them all day long some other time. Thanksgiving is supposed to be about connecting and sharing with family. Give them respect by giving them your full attention. Unless you're an emergency room doctor, there really isn't a reason for your cell phone to be at the table or even in the room with you on Thanksgiving.

This is obviously quite a pet peeve of mine. I implore you to try, if you can, to spend quality time (not texting time) with the people who took time out of their busy lives to spend today in person with you, celebrating with you face to face. Your texting buddies will be there tomorrow.

Best wishes for a happy Thanksgiving for you!


Tuesday, November 07, 2017

Lovely Living: Cozy Autumn Evenings Spent with Classic Literature Coloring Books

I've had some stressful family emergencies lately to help out with, and now that the worst is past, I am greatly in need of some downtime by my fireplace. I'm building several quiet evenings into my calendar this week. I'll pour wine, tea or cocoa (depending on my mood), light the fire, move my dogs' beds closer to the fireplace, and settle in with magazines and some coloring projects. I'm hoping to reduce my stress and calm down a bit.

Here are some of the literary-themed coloring books tempting me! (I included Amazon affiliate links for them - a small fee will be paid by Amazon if you purchase through these links. This helps to offset some of Lovely Living's blogging expenses, hope you don't mind!)

In the Wuthering Heights adult coloring book you can color in scenes of Catherine, Heathcliff, the moors, and the gothic house.

The coloring scenes inside A Christmas Carol Coloring Classic are much cheerier than I'd expected. Instead of grim lecturing ghosts, the pages feature festive feasts, pies, dazzling shop windows, and cozy indoor scenes.

Shakespeare fans might enjoy coloring the star-crossed lovers in the Romeo and Juliet Classic Coloring book. The illustrations inside are really charming and precious.

I think I might find the Anne of Green Gables coloring book extra relaxing. The book takes you on a picturesque tour of Prince Edward Island.

The Color Me Jane adult coloring book features both quotes from the books and scenes featuring Austen's characters.

Pride and Prejudice is my favorite Austen novel, so I'm going to definitely buy and enjoy this Pride and Prejudice: A Coloring Classic book.

Abrams Noterie's Classic Coloring: Jane Austen features 55 removable plates. After coloring, you can frame them to hang on your walls.

Another classic coloring book with removable plates is their Alice coloring edition.

If I'm short on time and want to feel like I've gotten something accomplished, I turn to less intricate adult coloring books such as Quotes to Color books. This one features Anne of Green Gables quotes, such as "I don't want to be anyone but myself."

Or perhaps She Said It Best: Jane Austen: Wit & Wisdom to Color & Display is more to your liking if you want to color quotes.

And here's another, perhaps simpler, Jane Austen Quotes coloring book.

Enjoy your coloring!


Enjoying Autumn and Not Rushing Into Thanksgiving

Festive Autumn Wreath, via Amazon

Let's celebrate autumn (rather than bemoan the evenings getting darker sooner and the rain and cold coming!) Light a fire, make an extra cup of hot tea, cider or coffee (and time to sip and enjoy it).

I'm a little sad Halloween is over, but I can still burrow into a book of dark short stories, watch a scary movie, and nibble on sugary treats. I don't want to rush towards Thanksgiving - it surely will arrive quickly enough on its own. Nor am I doing anything remotely Christmas related - I'll save that for a more wintry day.

Go for a walk (preferably with dogs, if you have any) along leaf-strewn paths. (We've had snow and rain lately, so won't have leaves on our trees much longer here in Seattle!)

Invite friends over to make casseroles, prep a week's food ahead of time, share recipes, and gossip over drinks.

Browse Thanksgiving cooking magazines, autumn home decor catalogs, and your favorite women's magazines.

Set your DVR to record a sappy holiday movie or two and indulge if you can carve out the time!

Write in your journal, paint an autumn-themed painting, or work on other creative crafts that make you happy! Now that we're not living outside savoring the sunshine and all that summer brings, we have time for our book clubs, knitting, crafting, reading, music and other artistic and hobby related pursuits!


  • Shake out throw rugs and door mats. This time of year they get dirty!
  • Sweep and mop entryway and front porch as needed - my entryway has leaves inside and out right now!
  • Grab a broom and do a quick sweep for spiderwebs in upper corners of all your rooms. Free spiderweb decorations were great at Halloween but not anymore!
  • If you're sending kids to school with a home packed lunch sack tomorrow, throw in some autumn stickers, a special fall treat they might enjoy eating, or a sappy love note. It just takes a moment to set up and hide in their sack!

TODAY'S PROJECT: Preparing the Family Room for Post-Festivity Relaxing

I'm currently couch shopping because unfortunately I've found that my Davis Sofa from Crate and Barrel isn't all that comfortable for long-term TV viewing, slouching and lounging. It works better as an occasional seat for visitors who stay an hour for tea or for a quick visit.

With my busy lifestyle, television addiction, and fuzzy black dogs, I'm sure this room will get messed up again shortly. But tonight, I'm making sure my family room/media room is ready for company. My next party is coming up on Friday, and people will come into this room to help themselves at the bar. I want it to look inviting, clean and tidy, warm and welcoming.

Red Lacquer Serving Tray, on Amazon

Here's my list of tasks for tonight. The good news is the room is small and has been well maintained so this shouldn't take long, AND there's a TV in this room to keep me company while I work. AND, the wine is in here!

  • Dust the TV and sound system with specialty cloths and spray for electronics.
  • Sweep and mop behind the TV stand, because it gets super dusty there.
  • Dust the two framed posters hanging in this room.
  • Dust the mantel, bar, DVD bookcase, TV stand and side table.
  • Wipe down trays on the bar and make sure there are enough wine glasses and cocktail napkins out.
  • Wipe down the tray on the side table, and make sure a box of Kleenex is handy.
  • Vacuum the rug, couch and chair in this room.
  • Launder the pet beds that stay in this room, ready for snoozing doggies to relax on them.
  • Mop the laminate flooring, although it will get muddy again from the dogs' feet in the morning.
  • Tidy away magazines, office supplies, extra remotes, mugs and other clutter from this room.
  • Wash windows, even if they'll be hidden behind my heavy burgundy velvet curtains. Dust windowsills too.
  • Launder my two throws and Febreze pillows and curtains. Refold throws on couch and chair when finished.

See, that seems like a long list but really isn't more than 45 minutes of work once I get started! Do you have anything you might want to attend to in your family room tonight?

LOVELY BATH & BODY: The Body Shop's Vanilla Pumpkin Products

Halloween is over, but I'm still in the mood for pumpkin scented things. I'm delighted that The Body Shop's Vanilla Pumpkin line isn't too spicy smelling - the vanilla softens it and tones it down. The line includes a body butter (indispensable, if you ask me), a hand lotion, and a shower gel. I love the little hint of maple in each product, too! Wish they made a shampoo and conditioner in this line!

Vanilla Pumpkin, at The Body Shop

LOVELY BLOGS: Tinned Tomatoes

I'm also Scottish (in heritage, not nationality!) and also vegetarian, so I thought I should check out this blog by a Scottish vegetarian!

Jacqueline lives in Scotland with her vegan husband and little boy. She challenges herself to learn to cook more adventurously.

I bet I could get my meat-eating boyfriend to try Vegan Sausage Birra since it has beer in it! I'm not personally adventurous enough to try Vegan Beetroot and Vanilla Sorbet, plus it's too cold here in Seattle to be eating any sorbet right now. Haven't you always been curious to find out if there's any such thing as a Veggie haggis? And check out her delicious looking Vegan roast vegetable pesto and cream cheese pizza. Except I'm confused why the word "Vegan" is in the title of the post when the recipe calls for real cream cheese.

Anyway, I bet you'll like her friendly and clear writing and beautiful food photography!

LOVELY BOOKS: Kindness - The Little Thing That Matters Most

I love happy little actionable, motivational books like this. The one problem I have with them is that the people in your life (toxic, selfish, self-absorbed, etc) that really need to read a book like this, never will. (Heavy sigh).

Anyway, the book suggests 52 things you can do to spread kindness. I'm sure it would do all of us good to read it, get ideas, and have kindness more in the forefront of all of our minds. It might prompt interesting dinner table conversations with your middle schoolers and teenagers once a week at your family dinner, perhaps.

The author, Jamie Thurston, set up a website called 52 Lives with the idea of helping change someone's life every week of the year. You can read about it here, and read an interview with her here.

Kindness: The Little Thing That Matters Most, on Amazon


I happened across this London-based shoe company and fell in love with their darling shoes for babies and children. My favorite pair is the pink metallic "George" shoes. But I'm also faint with adoration for their red holiday shoes: Maria for girls and Matthew for boys. There are also some unique designs I haven't seen on children's shoes elsewhere, such as the Cree style.

Alas, my nieces and nephews have grown so much, I have no babies to shop for here!

You can learn more about the shoes and their designer here.

LOVELY JEWELRY: Lydia Courteille

I wanted to introduce you this incredible French jewelry designer. I've been exploring her collections tonight, stunned and amazed by her fanciful, whimsical, distinctive jewelry creations. I love looking at these, even though I cannot afford them.

Browse through "Amazonia," "Queen of Sheba," "Rainbow Warrior Prophecy," "Deep Sea," "Scarlet Empress," and "Homage to Surrealism." Let me know which collection is your favorite, in our comments area below here at Lovely Living! (I'm having a hard time choosing a favorite, but I suppose it's "Scarlet Empress.")

Lydia Courteille on Facebook

Lydia Courteille on Instagram

Lydia Courteille on Twitter


Apple Cider Roasted Carrots with Plums (The Food Charlatan)

Autumn Harvest Pizza (Strawberry Blondie Kitchen)

Cherry Crumble Pie (Little Sweet Baker)

Fall Panzanella Salad (Two Peas and Their Pod)

Homemade Skillet Green Bean Casserole (Laughing Spatula)

Instant Pot Buffalo Chicken Pasta (We Are Not Martha)

Easiest All Butter Pie Crust (Something Swanky)

Pumpkin Ricotta Pancakes (Top With Cinnamon)

Slow Cooker Green Bean Casserole Recipe (Crunchy Creamy Sweet)

Sweet Yeast Rolls with Whipped Pumpkin Butter (Certified Pastry Aficionado)

White Chocolate Chai Snickerdoodles (Sally's Baking Addiction)

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Wednesday, November 01, 2017

November Begins - Here Comes the Festive Season

Happy first day of November! Hope you had a fun Halloween last night!

This month I'm working hard to get my house ready for the festive season ahead. There will be dinner parties, birthday parties, Family Dinner nights, movie nights, a cocktail party or two, and of course, Thanksgiving.

I'll need my kitchen in top working order (and I'll need to keep it well organized and maintained as the month progresses).

I want to entertain guests in clean, orderly, welcoming, cozy living and dining rooms. And should we have overnight guests this season, I want them to be comfortable in a luxurious, well-appointed, uncluttered and warm guest room. Are you anticipating overnight guests this fall? Perhaps you'd like to follow along with these cleaning projects in your own home.

I'll make a major push to clean and organize the house (emphasizing on the kitchen) this month. That will leave my December more freed up for Christmas shopping, holiday parties, and festive activities. (I'll still have to clean and organize in December, but mostly it will be about maintaining the lovely home I created in November).

Now it's November. How the year flies by! Thanksgiving is 23 days away, and Christmas is 55 days away. Think about things you might want to get done this month regarding these upcoming holidays.


Maglite LED Flashlight, on Amazon

  • Today I'm changing out the D batteries in the three Maglite flashlights I keep ready and test frequently. (One is in my car, one is under my bed where I can
    reach it in the night, and one is by the back door, used for finding my two naughty black dogs in the yard on dark nights). My flashlight batteries are still working, but I want them to be at their very best in case of emergency. D batteries are expensive, so I'll save out the ones I'm removing from the flashlights and use them for other purposes. They still have some juice left in them!
  • Pay rent/mortgage and bills.
  • Look over your calendar for upcoming birthdays during November. Take time tonight to sit down and write cards, prepare them for mailing, send gifts, or send flowers to anybody on your list for this week.
  • Make doctor, dentist, salon, groomer and vet appointments for yourself, family members and your pets for the upcoming month.
  • Are you thinking of attending any plays, musicals, concerts or symphonies this autumn and winter? Make your plans and buy tickets now if you haven't yet.
  • Remove any Halloween decorations, keeping up Thanksgiving and fall themed ones (unless you're the type of person who enjoys having Halloween decor out for months or year-round!) Store your decorations safely away in a well-marked box or Sterilite tub. Leave anything that still looks autumn-related: my pumpkins are staying out and so is my orange tablecloth. Keep burning your Halloween candles until they are used up - then we'll have an excuse to go shopping for new autumn and Christmas candles!
  • It's recommended that we change our flashlight and smoke detector/carbon monoxide detector batteries now, during the fall time change (coming up November 5). I also like to flip, vacuum and rotate my mattresses so they for sure get that done twice per year.
  • Do you have your Thanksgiving hosting or travel plans set and confirmed?


I have furry black dogs, so can only dream about this lovely pink linen "Adeline" Pottery Barn upholstered sofa!

Tonight after work, I plan to do a thorough cleaning on my upstairs "formal" living room. Because this is the most light-filled room of the house, it's our favorite. I use this room in the mornings to drink tea, read magazines, sort mail, pay bills, and watch a little bit of the news while drinking tea and trying to wake up. On rainy afternoons I might watch a recorded cooking show or something light on Netflix while I'm taking a break from my work or eating a late lunch. In the evenings, we might catch up on the news and eat dinner in this room rather than at the dining table.

Besides the dining room, this is the main room I entertain in. When guests come over, I spread appetizers and drinks on the coffee table, play music on the living room stereo, light candles on the mantel, and light a fire in the fireplace. Guests are welcomed into this room while they wait for dinner to be served. They do tend to hover in my small kitchen, which makes me really stressed out. I always hope that appetizers will lure them into relaxing in this room instead of crowding into the kitchen!

Because I do entertain so very often, I need this room to always be ready to go at a moment's notice, looking cozy, neat and clean. (I will admit that I often rush upstairs right before a cocktail party to hide the cluttery pile of mail and magazines that accumulates on my coffee table!)

Mission-Style Tiffany-Glass Fireplace Screen, from Chloe Lighting, on Amazon

Tonight I plan to:

  • Wash the living room windows thoroughly, and remove the tape from my previous Halloween lights
  • Watch the news or listen to music while I work, to make my task more pleasant. Can't hurt to sashay around cleaning with a glass of wine in one hand, either!
  • Clean out the fireplace and replenish the supply of firewood and Duraflames I keep next to it. I'll keep an eye on my supply of fireplace matches and regular matches, too. I love burning a fire every night in autumn and winter!
  • Next I will dust the fireplace mantel, two bookshelves, coffee table, two side tables, all the baseboards and four windowsills.
  • I'll move the couch, coffee table, mail table and end tables and vacuum under them. I also need to vacuum both of my couches - I see evidence that a bratty black doggie has been sneaking onto the furniture for naps!
  • My living room curtains were laundered during Spring Cleaning, so I will just Febreze them and leave them alone.
  • The lamp should be dusted, and dead tea light candles removed from their votives spread around the room.
  • I keep a box of Kleenex in this room, and need to check to see if it needs replenishing.
  • For a finishing touch, I'll put a bowl of Satsuma oranges on the coffee table. My dogs seem to leave them alone, and they'll make the room smell nice. I'll fluff the decorative pillows, refold the throws we keep on the couches, and be ready to settle in late tonight with hot cocoa and the current book I'm reading!

LOVELY BLOGS: Love & Olive Oil

Taylor and Lindsay blog from their home in Nashville. They cook in their tiny kitchen, trying to eat out less often and learning new recipes. I'm enjoying their food photography and the interesting foods they're presenting. For example, check out their Purple Cauliflower and Sweet Potato Soup, Apple Sour Cream Coffee Cake, Parmesan Puffs and Fig Rose Jam.. Hope you enjoy checking out their blog as much as I did!


Color Dipped Dining Chairs (Everyday Annie)

Deviled Egg (No, Not Really!) Cookies (Bake at 350)

Eggnog Cake (Love From the Oven)

Fall Decor to Last Through Thanksgiving (Pint Sized Baker)

How to Make Cute Little Acorn Cookies (The Bearfoot Baker)

Pumpkin Coffee Cake with Cinnamon Streusel (Baking Bites)

Spumoni Cookie Bars (Bakers Royale)

--Copyright 2017 Lovely Living

Sunday, September 03, 2017

September Begins - Summer Continues

I just updated my late-summer porch and driveway look. I've added pots of pink flowers, a bit of red astilbe to transition into autumn, and pulled some turquoise lanterns into service.

It's a new month! Here in Seattle it still feels like summer, with our unusual 90 degree weather. Still, it's back-to-school time, and all my friends have been in a shopping and sorting frenzy. I'm hanging out in my backyard today, tidying the yard, watering the lawn, babying along some sick herbs, and reading magazines.

In the house, it's time to burn up the last of my summery lavender and rosemary scented candles. It's almost time to get out the pumpkin-scented and apple cider candles I enjoy in autumn.

I seem to be able to keep Astilbe alive better than some of my other flowers, so I'll probably pick up a few more this week

It's also Labor Day Weekend, and many of my friends are out of town, or throwing one last summer barbecue. I've traveled enough this summer, so I'm savoring time at home (and occasional trips to Woodinville wine tasting rooms).

What did you do to enjoy your Labor Day weekend holiday? Are your kids already back in school, or starting this week when the holiday ends? Let me know in the comments section below!


I don't normally decorate my yard with bright vivid pink in early fall or late summer, but I couldn't resist this cheerful huge pot of mums from Costco!

  • Is school starting for your kids on Tuesday? Plan to prepare a special dinner; help them pick out what they're wearing that first day; plan ahead for their lunches (if they don't eat at the school cafeteria).
  • Make meal plans for the week ahead.
  • Is everyone sleeping on clean sheets tonight? I like to do my laundry on quiet Sunday evenings. It's a good chance to catch up on some TV shows I may have missed during the week and still be doing something useful while I watch.
  • Clean one drawer, one shelf, or two door shelves in your fridge and freezer today. Doing this makes sure your fridge and freezer both get completely cleaned out every month (depending on how many shelves you have).
  • Eat some of the last fresh, in-season summer fruit you have access to before we move into enjoying autumn's bounty. Slice up melons, pick and eat strawberries or blackberries, make fresh squeezed lemonade or limeade, and eat some ice cold watermelon.
  • Pay beginning-of-the month bills, rent or mortgage as needed.

TODAY'S PROJECT: Easing Into September

My boyfriend has been away all day on a long hike. I'm planning to light these lanterns so he has a welcoming glow when he returns. (I'll also be sure there's a cold beer ready for him!)

  • Look ahead at your calendar (whether paper or electronic) for the upcoming month. Do you need to schedule any salon/spa, pet grooming, dentist, doctor, optometrist, or other appointments for yourself or any family members?

  • Take note of any upcoming birthdays this month. Get ready to send gifts, cards, flowers, or make phone calls as needed.

  • Make any phone calls or send emails you need in order to catch up and stay connected with family and friends. I'm especially prioritizing people I suspect I didn't speak with in August. Many people might be out busily doing things for Labor Day weekend and not able to take calls. However, we all might have some older family members feeling lonely sitting at home. Bet they'd love a call.

  • Take some time to look over your budget for the month of September. Not just your financial budget (which is very important too) but also your time budget. Do you have time for gardening, pleasurable cooking, reading, homemaking, work, projects, hobbies - but also time for family, friends, pets, and very importantly, yourself? What can you do differently to make sure you're meeting your needs and your family's? Need to cancel any commitments, or say No next time you're asked a favor that will eat up time? 

  • Make time for yourself sometime today outdoors while it's still nice enough weather to enjoy it. Take a longer walk than usual; take some of your summer magazines out on the porch with some iced tea and enjoy them. It's time to finish reading our summer-themed August and September magazines and catalogs. Read and enjoy anything with summer recipes, beach house decoration or island travel themes. Coastal Living, Bon Appetit, Gourmet, and summer issues of Good Housekeeping, House & Garden, Oprah, etcetera. I do understand that some of you are still living in very hot weather right now and might not be able to enjoy your outdoors.

LOVELY ACCESSORIES: Kate Spade's Dollface Items

Ha ha, you never can quite guess what whimsical novelty item Kate Spade will come up with next! I'm currently enamored with (though not planning to purchase, given their expense) the new Dollface line of jewelry and accessories. Based on Russian Matryoshka nesting dolls, these items are cheerful, pink and red, colorful and fun. There's a necklace, a clutch bag, earrings, and a darling ring.

If you aren't all dolled out by now, there's also a Matryoshka stacking doll style coin purse.

You might also like to take a look at Kate Spade's Nesting Dolls dress.

Dollface, at Kate

Kate Spade Dollface items on eBay

LOVELY BLOGS: The Fairytale Pretty Picture

I'm enjoying browsing this home decor and lifestyle blog - and learning so much from it! I've especially enjoyed her article on How to Grow Herbs at Home, a topic I'm very interested in (and an activity I'm not very good at yet, judging by my row of dead plants on my deck!) And I really appreciated her article on home lighting since I'm struggling to make my guest bedrooms cozier and make reading books in bed easier for my guests.

I thought you might like reading the fashion & lifestyle and home design posts here!

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LOVELY BOOKS: At Home at Highclere: Entertaining at the Real Downton Abbey

I generally cannot resist books on entertaining. So guess what happened when I discovered this new book by the Countess of Carnarvon! Clicked Buy and ordered it immediately.

I was a huge fan of Downton Abbey, and though I can't entertain in such a high style in my modest suburban home, I still like to know how it's done at Highclere Castle.

The book is separated into four sections, each describing a real life weekend that took place between 1866 and 1936. The historic recipes have been adapted for modern kitchens. Lady Carnarvon also describes and gives recipes for the cocktails served at her own parties. What fun!

At Home at Highclere, on Amazon


I Tried Being a Minimalist - Here Are My Decluttering Regrets (Mind Body Green)

Is Gezellig the New Hygge? (SheKnows)

Salted Dark Chocolate Chip and Roasted Pecan Cookies (Bakers Royale)

Three Ingredient Chocolate Pumpkin Cookies (The Gracious Wife)

2017 Home Trends That Have Real Staying Power (Seattle Times)

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Thursday, August 31, 2017

Continuing to Savor and Celebrate Summer

Summer will draw to an end soon, but for now it's still here. We still have time to enjoy outdoor activities, warm weather, sunshine, and a less frantic schedule than when our kids (if any) start school again.

What's still on your to-do list for summertime enjoyment? What can you squeeze in before the nights get chilly, the days get shorter, and your life gets busier?

Have you ... eaten dinner outdoors? ... picked blackberries ... baked a pie ... gone on a picnic ... shopped at a farmers market?

Have you thrown outdoor parties (space permitting).. attended outdoor gatherings ... read magazines idly in the sunshine ... burned a fragrant incense in your yard or home?

Have you dipped your toes into an ocean or a lake? ... swum in a lake or swimming pool ... picked wildflowers ... biked or walked on a lovely trail .. gone on a road trip to visit friends or family?

Have you slept under the stars.. looked for meteors.. lounged around or napped on a hammock or chaise lounge ... watched an outdoor movie.. ?

Comment below and let me know what you're still looking forward to doing this summer.

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Monday, August 28, 2017

Welcoming the Sunlight Season

I'm so excited for summer to begin!

I'm looking forward to gardening, sleeping outside, outdoor movie theaters, eating on restaurant patios, walks on the beach..

I'm excited to wear sundresses again!

What are you most looking forward to in the sunny season ahead?